DID YOU KNOW? 

 

There are 43+ Life  Events which can cause conflicting feelings.

• Death of a loved one

• Divorce, or the end of a relationship

• Going to war

• Coming home from war

• Change in roles among couples

• Loss of physical ability

• Death of a pet

• Illness

• Major financial change

• Graduation

• And 33 more...

Conflicting feelings

caused by CHANGE ... = GRIEF

 

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WHAT YOU CAN DO TO HELP

 

Go First, especially if you are in a leadership position.

Experience firsthand "tools for the pain of change."

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Equipped with these "tools for the pain of change," congregations, businesses, schools and individuals make a difference for themselves and others!

 

 

 

 

THE PROBLEM

 

While grief is normal and natural, most of the information about grief is not normal, natural or helpful.  Grief is the emotional response to change and loss. 

 

However,  most of the information we have learned about dealing with change and loss is intellectual.  We continue to feel bad, sad, depressed because we are using the wrong set of tools.  It's like trying to pull nails out of a board with a screwdriver.

 

The majority of incorrect ideas about dealing with loss can be summed up in six myths:  

• Don't feel bad

• Get a new one

• It just takes time

• Just keep busy

• Keep your troubles to yourself

• Be strong for others

 

 

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THE SOLUTION

Recovery - or feeling better -  is achieved by discovering and completing all of the undelivered communications - both positive and negative - that accumulate in  relationships.  We are all advised to “Let go” and “Move On,” and would if only we knew the HOW.

 

Completion of pain caused by loss is what allows us to “let go” and “move on.”  And that is almost impossible without first taking a series of actions that lead to completion.  We teach you the "HOW."

 

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