THE PROBLEM
While
grief is normal
and natural, most of the information about grief is
not
normal, natural or helpful. Grief is the emotional
response to change and loss.
However, most of the information we have
learned about dealing with change and loss is intellectual.
We continue to feel bad, sad, depressed because we are
using the wrong set of tools. It's
like trying to pull nails out of a board with a
screwdriver.
The majority of
incorrect ideas about dealing with loss can be summed up
in six myths:
THE SOLUTION
Recovery
- or feeling better
- is achieved by discovering and completing
all of the undelivered communications - both positive
and negative - that accumulate in relationships. We are all advised to “Let go” and
“Move On,” and
would if only we knew the
HOW.
Completion of pain caused by loss is what allows us to
“let go” and “move on.” And that is almost impossible without first taking a series of actions that
lead to completion. We teach you the "HOW."